Sunday, March 18, 2012

#199 Patterns of Fate and Destiny, part 14 - Mahipal Lunia - Warrior Way

Certain threads run consistently through our lives and define both who we are and how we relate with the world. For the most part we remain unconscious of these threads that define our life story. This is a journey of becoming conscious of some of these threads and in the process the listeners becoming aware of their life stories.

Today, we explore the warrior way:

  • Martial arts journey
  • Development of the warrior
  • It’s a way of being
  • Everything is duty and privilege

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Forget Self Improvement - find enjoyment

Loved this piece that was written, and IMHO it nails it. It took a while to understand what Joseph Campbell meant when he said” most people are not looking for meaning in their life, all they seek is rapture/coming alive.”

http://lifehacker.com/5890679/forget-self+improvement

Forget Self-Improvement

Ever wonder how some people accomplish so much? They run marathons, write novels, start companies… without making it seem like a big deal?

Well, it is a big deal. And in spite of how effortless these accomplishments may appear, people work harder than you likely realize to make these things happen. There is, however, one thing they know-at least in practice-that you don’t.

Most of us want to finish the race, but see running as a chore. A few dream about being great authors, but find the writing itself to be slow and difficult. Some of us learn all we can about starting a company, only to hit a wall when it comes time to get down to work.

Self-help books and workshops arm us with ways to trick ourselves into doing things we perhaps should, but generally don’t want, to do. I ask whether this lack of will might actually be the universe trying to tell us something?

Maybe you aren’t supposed to bother with the tedious stuff. Perhaps the reason you haven’t done it yet, is that you weren’t meant to. Might achievement, as a goal unto itself, be pointless? Could this need to have donesomething notable, simply be greed in a more socially-acceptable form?

More than all of the rest, though: What if the missing part of the puzzle is not a lack of willpower, but instead a lack of love?

The runner discovers tranquility on the road, forgetting the pain. The writer gives in to the joy of playing with words, moving past the aggravation. The entrepreneur finds purpose in making something, and stops noticing the long days.

You can spend your life fretting about how healthy, interesting, or successful you are. In fact, a whole industry depends upon this, and is eager to help you make plans to change.

On the other hand, you might consider simply finding what you love, and letting the rest take care of itself.

Forget Self-Improvement | Deliberatism

Sunday, March 4, 2012

#198 Patterns of Fate and Destiny, part 13 - Arman Darini & Lisa -Conscious Relationships - The Costs

Certain threads run consistently through our lives and define both who we are and how we relate with the world. For the most part we remain unconscious of these threads that define our life story. This is a journey of becoming conscious of some of these threads and in the process the listeners becoming aware of their life stories.

Today, we explore what we have to give up in order to have a conscious relationship:

  • Individual versus the couple
  • Conscious relationships require conscious individuals
  • The loneliness of a couple