We are continuing our conversations on the rhythms of rapport, and this time we address the somatic – or pre-verbal – aspects of rapport.
- Focus on aspects of the body:
- Breath
- Eyes (brain states)
- Overall body gestures and posture
- Large group dynamics
- Idiosyncracies
- Areas:
- Dancing
- Business meetings
- Martial arts
- Name of the podcast: somatic or pre-verbal?
- Somatic – anything related to the body
- Pre-verbal – at the primary level, before the language kicks in. Circuits 1 and 2.
- Eye accessing cues
- Traditional NLP way – up, straigth, down
- Spacial locations
- Leading: shifting the locations, moving into different modalities
- Dance (5Rhythms) – eyes “language”
- Body proper
- Tracking the impulses that move the body, and replicating that in yours
- Martial arts (aiki jujutsu) – tracking body as a whole; breathing patterns as expressions; pacing – flowing with a punch, leading – becoming a center and taking control
- Business meeting face to face – track tentions, match / mirror those, then lead to relaxation
- People with schizophrenia – enter their world and change it from there
- Rapport in dance
- Large groups – rapport as a sense of belonging; track how space and time is treated
- Idiosyncrasies – personal signatures, unique self-expressions
[techtags: NLP, Rapport, Language, Verbal, Tracking, Pacing, Leading]
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