Ideas for Transformation
#95 Letting Go to Move On
By RCG
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August 16th, 2009
• Recorded: May 29, 2009 •
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In this episode, we are talking an important aspect of any transformation – accepting and letting go of the old, before embracing the new.
- Why it is important
- What we accumulate holds us back
- Directionality – let go of what to move where? Changing the state of being
- "Gods of one level are the demons of the next"
- What keeps us stuck?
- Delusions – and acceptance as a path
- Emotions that keep us back, and forgiveness as a way out.
- When you don’t see an alternative
- Sequence of steps
- Forgive the old before moving on – otherwise, you’ll keep being bound to the old
- Denial, anger, sadness, acceptance (same sequence as for trauma)
- If you don’t let go of the old, it will haunt you
- Accepting, forgiving (if appropriate), finding an honorable closure, then moving on through a "rite of passage"
- Closing remarks
- Don’t confuse forgiveness & acceptance with forgetting
- Hardest to accept & forgive yourself
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I especially liked the debate between Mahipal and Arman to do with the organisms seeking equilibrium or growth to a new level of complexity.
The jury is still out. We all know people in both groups, and we have both aspects within ourselves.
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